May 2003
Been There, Done That
Texas, New Mexico, California
May 2003
Been There, Done That
Texas, New Mexico, California
Or… On the road Again, Part II; Tales of a Mouse, Part III; and Just How Useless can 8 Little Paws be, anyway??? An ongoing saga.
Well, when last we wrote we were in Texas, readying ourselves for the trip west back to California to settle our affairs and sell our home in Paso Robles. The deed has been done, and we are back on the road. But it has certainly been a busy two months since we left eastern Texas.
The problem with finally getting to the New Mexico border is that it still looks like west Texas. Slog, slog. Oil fields, cotton, sleepy little towns and lots of flat, barren ground. We spent a night in the Carlsbad area and then proceeded to skirt Roswell (carefully) before heading into the mountains west of there. This was interesting country with good history; Billy the Kid was captured in this area. We saw antelope on the hillsides and the roads were quite scenic. We passed the Smokey the Bear monument (which I would have assumed would have been in the Dakotas, oh well) and headed toward Socorro. Ended up spending a night there, due to some motorhome trouble. Home of the New Mexico School of Mines, but not much else. But the mechanics were delightful and took good care of us; never had spent the night next to a junk yard before…..
And then we came home. Preparing to put our home on the market required us to bring all our belongings back up from storage underneath the house so we could move back in and start to sell everything. Five weeks and many sore backs later, it’s all gone and so are we. The house is listed for sale, although not moving as quickly as we had hoped/expected. Knowing that “the house around the corner sold in two days” doesn’t get yours into escrow. There’s plenty of housing available for purchase, and although we have a lovely home with a beautiful deck and landscaping, it will, as always, have to wait for the right person to come along.
Harder for us was selling the furniture and our belongings. Not emotionally more difficult; we had already prepared ourselves for that. Physically more demanding; furniture is heavy, boxes are hard on your back, all the things you already know. The kids showed up to help us get the heavy stuff out from under the house, and that was a real pleasure. And we had gotten rid of a lot of stuff when we first left town in 2001. but boy there was still a lot to do. We ran ads in the paper for things, Rick had adventures on the internet selling certain things (he doesn’t want to talk about it—it was a tremendous amount of work but pretty successful); toward the end we had a huge garage sale; and then Goodwill came and got most of what was left. We couldn’t have done it without the help of good friends who loaned us trucks for hauling things, provided a place to store our company records for the next several years, etc. When all was said and done, we ended up with about a dozen boxes of things we decided we really did not want to part with, and we shipped them to Arizona for Rick’s mom to store. Then we beat feet out of town before someone started looking for us!
Our main goal when leaving was to get some peace and quiet. For the first time in a long while, we had been faced with constantly ringing phones and deadlines and goals and too much stuff to do (sounds like work, huh!), and we wanted to go someplace and just sit down. But first we wanted to visit friends and the rest of the family, in northern California. So we stopped in San Jose, and then went into the Bay Area where we had a wonderful reunion with Kathy’s father and two sons (along with a fiancé and a grandson), and a not-seen-for-many-years delightful niece. We were able to get some four generation photographs that are always very special.
We visited the Lady Bird Johnson Memorial Grove just south of here; it’s a redwood grove filled with enormous trees, ferns, very wet, tiny little forest flowers; a real treat, and recommended to any of you coming to this area. It was dedicated in 1969 and is beautifully maintained in its natural state.
From here we plan to head north into Oregon and Washington until mid-July, then into Idaho, Montana and begin our move eastward. We have plans for a folk music festival in Thunder Bay, Ontario Province in early August, and then on Cape Cod in September. And one son is getting married in Reno also in September, so we will be flying in for that weekend, and then back to the East Coast. So it may be some time before we get back to California. We tried to see as many of you as possible while we were in town, although we were so very busy we had few opportunities for visiting. If we missed you, please do not think for one moment that we wouldn’t have wanted the pleasure, but the chance just didn’t present itself. Our newsletters will keep you close, we hope, and if you are headed in our direction we DEMAND you let us know so we can try to hook up with you!
Hugs and best wishes,
Rick and Kathy
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